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Why You Can't Get Ahead

Hidden Brain, 18 min, 5.1K views, Jul 20, 2026

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Listen to the Hidden Brain podcast: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hidden-brain/id1028908750 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/20Gf4IAauFrfj7RBkjcWxh Website: hiddenbrain.org You got the raise. The bigger apartment. By every objective measure, you're doing fine. So why does it feel like everyone around you is pulling ahead? In this video, we explore the psychology of social comparison: why we measure ourselves against people who have more, what those comparisons do to our minds and bodies, and how choosing where we look can change how we feel. ____ Hidden Brain, hosted by me, Shankar Vedantam, is finally on YouTube! Like my podcast, this new video series will explore the unconscious patterns driving human behavior, our choices, and our relationships. ____ FIND HIDDEN BRAIN ONLINE Website: https://www.hiddenbrain.org/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hiddenbrain/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenbrainshow Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HiddenBrain/ Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/hiddenbrain.bsky.social X: https://x.com/HiddenBrain Patreon/Hidden Brain+: https://www.patreon.com/HiddenBrain

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