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How To Disconnect Without Annoying Your Friends And Family | Cal Newport

Cal Newport, 23 min, 10.5K views, Nov 13, 2025

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For all the recent discussion of social media tools addicting us to our phones, we forget that one of the more powerful attractors to these devices is also one of the simplest: messaging. The need to keep up with ongoing conversations with friends, family, and coworkers have accidentally made our phones an unavoidably constant presence. In this clip, Cal explores strategies for escaping this fate without alienating everyone you know. Buy Cal Newport's latest book, “Slow Productivity” at www.calnewport.com/slow Download my FREE Deep Life Guide HERE: https://bit.ly/3QBIcug Listen to Episode Here: https://www.thedeeplife.com/listen/ Get your questions answered by Cal! Here’s the link: https://bit.ly/3U3sTvo 0:00 The texting dilemma 5:10 Acute stress 10:16 Batch check messages Connect with Cal Newport: 🔴Visit Cal's BLOG and website: https://calnewport.com/blog/ 🔴Check out Cal's books: https://calnewport.com/writing/ 🔴Check out The Deep Life: https://thedeeplife.com About Cal Newport: Cal Newport is a computer science professor at Georgetown University. In addition to his academic research, he writes about the intersection of digital technology and culture. Cal's particularly interested in our struggle to deploy these tools in ways that support instead of subvert the things we care about in both our personal and professional lives. Cal is a New York Times bestselling author of seven books, including, most recently, A World Without Email, Digital Minimalism, and Deep Work. He's also the creator of The Time-Block Planner. The videos are considered to be used under the "Fair Use Doctrine" of United States Copyright Law, Title 17 U.S. Code Sections 107-118. Videos are used for editorial and educational purposes only and I do not claim ownership of any original video content. I don't use said video clips in advertisements, marketing or for direct financial gain. All video content in each clip is considered owned by the individual broadcast companies. #CalNewport #DeepWork #DeepLife #DeepQuestions #TimeblockPlanner #WorldWithoutEmail #DeepQuestionsPodcast